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    OK - I'm 13 and my brother is 15 and we share the same room. For the past 2 nights I have been woken up by him masterbating in his bed. What do I do? I thought of 4 things I could. Either 1 - tell him not to when I am in the room, 2 - ignore it, 3 - wake up and go to the bathroom for he is embarrassed or 4 - do it when he is alseep.

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    If it's making you uncomfortable, just ask him to do it when he has more privacy. If you're not comfortable talking to him about it, then yeah, perhaps you could get up and give him a scare - that'll make him think twice in the future. It's annoying to have your sleep interrupted, I can imagine - so I'd say the best course of action, if you're happy to do so, is just ask him to masturbate elsewhere; perhaps in the bathroom?
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    If I wuz you I'd join him! You could have a race to see who cums first

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    If I wuz you I'd join him! You could have a race to see who cums first
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    I just died.
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    I would probz just pretend like your starting to wake up and if he carrys on ask him what hes doing? Or just ask him to go do it somewhere else.

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    Yeah wake up "accidentally" and give him a scare and maybe that will make him think twice before doing it next time.

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    Just tell him not to? Because if he's that comfortable doing it while you're in the room, I'm sure it would be okay to talk to him.
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    Join in you might learn some new technique
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    Wish i had someone to J/O with!! I have no brothers and all the people at school will call me weird if i ask them!!

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    My guess is he is waiting until you're asleep because he's not sure what would happen if you knew what he was doing - maybe he'd be embarrased or you would so he's trying to place safe and trying to do the right thing.

    You're 13 now so presumably you either masturbate too or soon will so be frank and open open and say you understand why he masturbates and that you don't mind him doing it but you'd rather not be woken up by it because you need your sleep and then agree either:

    1. That it's ok to do it your shared bedroom (in your own beds) before you both go to sleep or, if you're not comfortable with that idea..
    2. That you each have a way of asking for exclusive use of the room so you can take turns doing it without sacrificing time when you should be asleep.

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    1. I would simply ignore it. It's what all guys do.I mean you can be really snotty and like make him seem uncomfortable about it and all that or you can just ignore it and maybe slip a comment like, " Hey, i really need some sleep at night, could you try and be quiet from now on"...........

    Perhaps it's time you two get seperate rooms? So maybe suggest that to your parents?

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    Does he think you're still asleep? Does he know you've woken up?

    Maybe next time just simply say something like "If any of that squirts onto me there will be big trouble"

    He may then realise he's being too loud, be embarrassed, and do it more quietly, or go to the bathroom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ConfusedAsAll View Post
    OK - I'm 13 and my brother is 15 and we share the same room. For the past 2 nights I have been woken up by him masterbating in his bed. What do I do? I thought of 4 things I could. Either 1 - tell him not to when I am in the room, 2 - ignore it, 3 - wake up and go to the bathroom for he is embarrassed or 4 - do it when he is alseep.

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    In light of your two sharing a bedroom and being close in age my suggestion to follow the direct approach and tell him quite frankly, but politely, that he is waking you up at night with his being noisy. You do not need to go into detail about his masturbating as you simply have to say that he is making a lot of noises at night. Your brother will get the message, and hopefully he will masturbate when you are not around. Of course, if your brother does not understand what you mean, then tell him that you hear him masturbating at night and that it wakes you up. You can then try to work out a schedule with your brother on when you both can have the room alone to do your respective activities.

    Your problem is a pretty common one among guys who share rooms, but your brother has to be respectful of you. My guess is that in light of your being 13 your brother does not think you know what he is doing or that he is waking you up. It is for that reason you have to let him know you understand what is going on so that he can be a respectful roommate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ConfusedAsAll View Post
    OK - I'm 13 and my brother is 15 and we share the same room. For the past 2 nights I have been woken up by him masterbating in his bed. What do I do? I thought of 4 things I could. Either 1 - tell him not to when I am in the room, 2 - ignore it, 3 - wake up and go to the bathroom for he is embarrassed or 4 - do it when he is alseep.

    Any suggestions or other ideas?
    I don't get the point of your point 4. In any case, you don't say whether it is his masturbating waking you up or whether you wake when he is masturbating. There is a difference. I'm assuming his masturbating is waking you up. This suggests he is a noisy masturbater (-tor?) in which case you tell him to shut up. I'm guessing the event is not disgusting you?

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