How do i kiss?!?!?!??!?!

[nirvana_dude]

i'm 14, i've never kissed a girl. i don't understand how you do it. all i know is, you kinda lick her tongue with yours. lol. please help, i dont wanna suck the first time i do it.

[Raven]

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[tonestar]

You massage her tounge with yours whilst moving your lips, everyone kisses differently you just have to adapt to whoever you are kissing, follow there lead!

[GrayPheonux]

just try and go with the flow,usually when you put to much thought into it,it goes awry. just do it,just do it, just do it do it to it

[Ben]

Originally posted by Raven
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Oh I will allright.

[fingerelevenshs]

I was this one girls first kiss and she was all distraught that she'd be a really bad kisser.

Well anyway it took 5 minutes but she blew my socks off. Good luck!

[sxe blue eyes]

above posts r good.....u just kinda i dno yah massage or play wit her tongue wit urs but dont stick ur tongue down her throat no girl lykes that its just nasty.....exactly lyke they said follow their lead n it kinda just comes naturally n ull get betta in time kissin more n 2 diff ppl n ull eventually develope ur own technique.....good luck :-p !!!!!!!!

[downwardspiral]

i just had my first kiss (yay finally!) and just do want come naturally an follow her lead

[zero_31]

wow...theres like 16 yr old people in here that just finaly got there first kiss...im not saying anything bad about anybody especially u matt but im only 11 and ive made out with like 4 girls and people older than me are just now getting there first kiss...no offense to anybody im just saying why didnt u kiss somebody in the 6th grade our school lets us kiss by our locker unless were disturbing people

[zero_31]

just follow her lead move ur head a little bit but dont gag her with ur tounge half way down ur throat i made that mistake before and now she hates me so just be careful on what u do and the choices u make my first kiss was horrible i got slammed against my locker by a girl and she just started making out with me and we were like best friends but then after that kiss we really didnt talk anymore so be careful some times its hard but most of the time its easy and sometimes when u think ur getting tounge it might be retainer [3rd kissing problem] >_< god damit! /////every body loves cartman\\\\\

[zero_31]

just follow there lead when there kissing but dont end up gagging a girl with ur tounge half way down her throat just follow her lead o and sometimes u might think ur getting tounge but it might be retainer it happens but it wont happen again

[HtnrJperGIRL]

Just do it, do w/e feels comfortable... Take ur time and relax... Just let things happen as they do.... Remember to be gentle and be a decent gentleman :) Always show Chivalry.. You can also be honest and tell the girl you've never kissed someone like this before :) Honesty is always the best policy~

[Bridget]

www.virtualkiss.com (http://www.virtualkiss.com/) Really though, it comes naturally, just go with it.

[outspaz]

tell her she is your first kiss, she will understand

[Nice guy]

Headbut her as hard as you can. Thats the way to win girls. Right! Right?...
Na, seriously though, its scary until it actually happens, and then suddenly everything is alrite and ur there in each others arms n the world is good. There is no point in me repeating what everyone else has said

[alwaysconfused]

There is no right way.........heck I had my first kiss this year and I didnt have a FRIEKEN clue what the hell I was doing. Just put my lips on hers and pulled away slowly. It was at a dance. So just go with the flow.

Just tell her this is your first kiss and you will get better! lol it will work

Dont sweat it soo much it will workout fine.

[Ryguy89]

yayyyy i brought back a year old thread

yayy im reallly bored

sorry

[braziliangirl14]

lol.

[Oceanborn]

three words: watch cruel intentions!!!

[jdphantom90]

dude u just do. go with the flow. it is natural.

[Free Blowjobs]

Check the dates, dude. This thread is OVER a year old. And you brought it back to live after it was dead for over a month. I'm sure he's got all the advice he needs.

[newyorker101]

You always see it in movies, you stare into her eyes, telling her you want to kiss her.
As your head comes closer to hers, tilt it a little to the side so you dont collide with her nose. Trust me, it can hurt!
Now, open your mouth a little and put your lips on hers to make the perfect fit. You will feel her tongue touching yours and at first the warm slime coming from her mouth will feel a little weird, but it will start to feel good and your tongue will want to make out with hers!
Hold the back of her head telling her she's too good to let go. Put your other arm around her waist. Just don't go too low! Have a little fun. As you're kissing her, MILLIONS of things will go through your mind. Try not to worry so much and enjoy it.

The hardest part about kissing is worrying about wether or not she thinks you're a good kisser. Maybe you think she knows you suck at it but she just doesn't want to tell you.
That's what I was always worried about until one girl told me (as if she was amazed) that I was a good kisser.

[SilverTen]

Ok, here's the best advice someone will ever give you about kissing. Let the girl decide the pace and passion of the kiss. DO NOT BE AGRESSIVE!!! If you follow those two simple tips, you will never go wrong, EVER.

[Nanodesu]

I learnt all I know about how to kiss from movies.

There was a great scene in cruel intentions where these two girls were french kissing each other for practice.

[ToterGehend]

wow...theres like 16 yr old people in here that just finaly got there first kiss...im not saying anything bad about anybody especially u matt but im only 11 and ive made out with like 4 girls and people older than me are just now getting there first kiss...no offense to anybody im just saying why didnt u kiss somebody in the 6th grade our school lets us kiss by our locker unless were disturbing people


That just means ur a hormonaly impulsed person, and will grow up desreing more and more, and one day ur gonna go over the edge and become a serial rapist, sorry i had to say taht, but people who see the need for so much sexual activity disgust me. i just dont see the point. i would go into my whole imorality rant here, but its not to pretty

[4giver4u]

when i was going out with my first g/f about a year and a half ago, at first i was scared to kiss her, and she wanted to kiss, i wanted to also, but i was afraid i didnt know how, well one day while playing 'pay day" she just leaned over and kissed me on the lips. it was so great, one of the happiest days of my life. You could also use your toungue if you want, or can just simply "touch" your lips to each other.

[CPU64]

After many many years, i finally got to go out on a date.. a few actually, and I have to say, I did pretty good. Just be gentle, don't rush it.


I know it worked, she would moan as we kissed....she was enjoying it..
In several emails, she told me the kissing was wonderful.And that I was the sweetest guy ever.

Too bad she didn't have the same intentions I had.
I wanted a girlfriend. I thought I had one, for about 4 days at least.. Best 4 days in my life that I'll never forget.

But she just broke up with her b/f of 4 years, and really just wanted to make out with someone..
Just for the hell of it..

I fell in love, she just wanted quick fun. I thought it was real. I was blind and fooled myself.

She now acts like nothing has ever happened and still asks me why I don't smile..
"You should smile" she says..

Nothing could've prepared me for that much pain. It hurts REALLY BAD!

So I'll probably have to wait another 28 years to find a girlfriend..

[Relapse]

Uh, what are you doing at GovTeen, Mr Creepy 28-year-old?

[Free Blowjobs]

Seriously. 28 is a bit old.

[onesoul]

dude, zero, there's no reason to kiss somebody from so young, it's just doing stuff you don't need to yet.to be honest, my first kiss was before high school as well, but I'm actually very happy for my one friend who is 17 and hasn't kissed yet. I admire him like you wouldn't believe!! I think it's a great thing to have the self-control not to kiss somebody until it means something special.

[LazyBoy]

if u think bout it too much ur fked.... its almost like an instink, when u actually kiss for the first time, and u dun think about it, ull just know what to do believe me.

[erewgjnrwsgbi]

I used to think the best advice was go with the flow, it's natural etc. Until last week, I kissed some girl who was clueless. It was a huge turn off btw.. She just swirled her tongue around like an out of control washing machine.

My advice: don't leave your tongue in her mouth limp but don't start flinging it around really fast either. Find the middle ground.

[CPU64]

Actually... I think its waaaaaay more creepy to read about 12 year olds in here asking which position is better..
That, is CREEPY!
I'm not saying anything that would get me in trouble.. But how about the 12 year old if his parents find out???

I was just writing about what happened to me and it was related to the subject.. Right?

And besides, its not my fault if I've been alive for this long.. If you saw me in the street, you wouldn't think I was over 18. No one does!
I still have to show ID for lots of things.. Not conveniant, but fairly fun sometimes. Lay off the age thing.. Its not helping me for good, it won't help me for the bad either ^_^

[dejrfan821]

don't worry about it too much...i'm 18 and i just had my first kiss in october. and to tell you the truth...i still don't really know what to do. it's just something that should happen naturally!

[Shatai]

As a few folks have said here before, don't get your back up over it too much. You don't need to be going for some fancy Olympic score here with your kissing, it should come natural while you're in the moment. It's fun as well as relaxing, you don't need a walkthrough or tutorial. Jesus, I'm probably one of the biggest anti-social geeks you'll ever meet, and my first kisses came without a hitch and I even got complimented, so don't worry about your performance with something as trivial as kissing. Again, let it come naturally to you, in the moment.

[CPU64]

Exactly ^_^

[prettyveins]

Bravo James, agreed.

[ByeByeBeautyful]

It comes natrually. Just remember to swallow, or there will be spit puddles around the outside of your mouth and in your mouth.

[nsa-is-the-way]

i'm 14, i've never kissed a girl. i don't understand how you do it. all i know is, you kinda lick her tongue with yours. lol. please help, i dont wanna suck the first time i do it.
well you know the funny thing is that this sounds like me.
im 14 never been kissed. lol well man at least your not alone

[Epic Fail Guy]

im 15 and i havnt been kissed.. and it doesnt seem like i wil get that chance for a while.. so when the time does come... im gonna feel REALLY REALLY stupid saying to this girl.. this is my first kiss.. i have been alive for 15 years and i have never kissed someone not related to me. :( :( :(

when people say.. let it flow and let it be natural.. what is natural? Someone who doesnt know how to kiss... Isnt gonna know a slight idea what to do. they only know what they can see from the outside which hardly helps.

[TheDreamer]

A first kiss should be done while you are alone with the girl. This will help you to feel more comfortable. Try to use different variations, like start with baby kisses and work into a french kiss, or maybe start kissing your partners lower lip and then switch to her upper lip. When my boyfriend and I are kissing I like when he plays with my hair..so maybe you could do that too..

[confuzed]

its not hard, just go wit the flow, and let her set the pace the first time, you can later if you want to. my first kiss was at the beginning of this school year, and ive french kissed a few times since. me and my current gf just made out for the first time last night. it meant so much more than befor, because i have such strong feelings for her. well just do it, not much to say, hard to explain.

[Propaganda]

all i can say is dont keep you eyes open the whole time and dont make it really messy (ie the lez part in not another teen movie) if u have seen you will understand what i mean im no expert i need help my self but easy key tips