I'm sorry.. but I'm miserably alone again..

[Deviant++]

Haven't found ne1 yet..
How the hell do u guys even meet up with other guys..
BAH
stupid question..the guys here aren't even my type.. GODDD
some1 add me to their im and bury me please. :(

[ROFLCopter]

i found nicole and then we broke up 4 days later evryone thought we were a good couple so did i.

[ExplodingHearts]

believe me, it takes a lot of dates to find that one person that WON'T make you feel lonely.

i've been in a relationship with someone, but felt utterly alone at the same time. it's not...fun.

and just because you don't THINK someone's your type doesn't mean they really aren't. try new things.

[RWD]

Originally posted by GetUpSid44
try new things.
yup. We all have a mental picture of the ideal guy or girl. Just meet and get to know a lot of people, including people you might not normally talk to. You might not click with any of them but you might meet their friends and eveentually find your match.

[dredg]

Don't go out with someone just because other people think your a good couple. I don't belive in just meeting some girl and going out with them as a "g/f and b/f " type of deal. I'd rather go out with them, but on a friendly date, to get to know them as a person, and their personality. That way you can see how much you'd acctualy enjoy thme

[Anduril]

I've got a saying it may be useful in this situation!

'You'll never be alone, you always have yourself!"

[Deviant++]

Thats A CURSE...
I have hundreds and thousands of MYSELF in my head. :cry:

[ExplodingHearts]

Originally posted by Anduril
I've got a saying it may be useful in this situation!

'You'll never be alone, you always have yourself!"
nobody wants to be with themselves their whole life.

[JohnnyEnglish]

i know some ppl who do

[Deviant++]

I'm tired of being myself :(

[Batman]

If you wish

[Deviant++]

ARGHHHHHH PLEASE DON'ttalk to me about studies anymore.. I've had it with studies I study all day and night.. PLEAsE AWRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[Batman]

Originally posted by Deviant
ARGHHHHHH PLEASE DON'ttalk to me about studies anymore.. I've had it with studies I study all day and night.. PLEAsE AWRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Okie Dokie, done

[Deviant++]

lol... thanks zerokey. :D
Thing is studies are one thing which I don't neglect. If there's anything in the world thats 1 thing I don't neglect.. :)

but y did u eraze it off ? :cry: :(

[Batman]

I can put it back, I saved it in case you said that. Here it is

Maybe you should shift your focus from finding a man into your studies, and then you wouldn't stress out about a man so much. And it'll be a lot easier to find a man when you're done with school anyway plus you'll have more to offer a relationship. Because think about what you need for a successful long term relationship. You need
Chemistry
Desire
Means of support

When I say chemistry I don't mean the class you hated back in 10th grade, I mean the way you and your partner interact. You also need to find each other attractive, not necessarily physically but mentally as well. Although I'm a huge fan of hygiene. And just as important as the previously mentioned ideas are you need a way to support your lifestyle. Put some serious thought into this question: Would you really want to live your life poor? Most people would answer no to that question, even poor people who are un-motived enough to do anything about it.

Some might say it is shallow to invest importance in education and quality of life, but not only is it human nature it is also present in many other species.

So in short, nobody wants a broke man, so you need to focus on your education so you can make enough money to be desirable.

Some might read that and not understand how money plays into a larger scheme of things so let me just restate that there are several important aspects of a relationship and probably the most important thing about a relationship is that you have to love yourself first. And if you love yourself you should treat yourself right. And if you love yourself you want yourself to be able to have nice things. So working hard and making enough money proves that you love yourself enough to love some one else.

The number one argument I get when I present this case is that it's shallow and that humans are above that. Well I really disagree but people are free to have any opinion they want, but it's just plain facts.

What I'm really trying to say is that you should invest some more time on yourself. You should take some classes that you really like, read some books that interest you, learn some new skills, take up some new hobbies, learn a new style of dance, publish something, basically make yourself the best and most desirable person you can.

I'm not trying to sound shallow or write a sermon but I think you should take the focus off finding a man and put focus into making yourself desirable, and then a man will find you.

You have a lot of potential if you realize it and fulfill it, then you'll be beating men off with a stick.

[Deviant++]

hehe I just read it.. :P

I already do most of that stuff hehe..
Good to see I'm on the right track :D

thanks though :P

[elvenstorm]

You'll find someone! Your still young and free so enjoy it while it lasts!
Once you finish studying you'll have more time to go out and meet people even if it's at work
Things will be ok :)

[alarming]

just wait for the right person...