asking a girl out ( girls only please!!!!!!)

[Lightningchico]

girls, even if you dont like a guy, and dont find him attractive in anyway. would you still appreciate the fact that he does like you and he tried to ask you out. and also i know girls always try turning a guy down by saying no thanks i am busy ( if he asks you out on a date ), to be nice girls say that . but dont you think that to be nice about it is to tell the truth, i do. please respond everything in my post.

[baller]

Love and Dating.

[Mikee]

^^^

[Lightningchico]

what the hell, girls please reply, not guys, and respond with a real answer

[RWD]

Originally posted by Lightningchico
girls please reply, not guys, and respond with a real answer
I'm not a girl but I'll give you a real answer.

Originally posted by Lightningchico
girls, even if you dont like a guy, and dont find him attractive in anyway. would you still appreciate the fact that he does like you and he tried to ask you out.
From talking to female friends (whom I have NOT asked out) if a guy she's not interested in asks her out, it's no big deal to her. Doesn't make her angry or upset, but it's not something that she especially appreciates either. I guess a girl who NEVER gets asked out would appreciate it more but still, she's not interested. It's kind of like when a telemarketer calls your house to sell you something you don't want. You politely say no thank you, you're not upset, but you're not "appreciative" either. You forget about him pretty quick.

Originally posted by Lightningchico
dont you think that to be nice about it is to tell the truth, i do.
Really? Would you really have a girl be totally honest and say "you're ugly, boring, short, fat, not athletic, not popular" or whatever her REAL reason was?
Personally, I'd rather have her tell me she's busy and take the hint.
And if you're asking this question not as a general question but because you're considering asking someone out, I suggest you do ask her out. See #3 in my signature.

[BlueDevil]

:arrow: Love and Dating :arrow:

You obviously don't want my advice [:roll:] I'll just move it an move on.

[Jounouchi]

Originally posted by Lightningchico
girls, even if you dont like a guy, and dont find him attractive in anyway. would you still appreciate the fact that he does like you and he tried to ask you out. and also i know girls always try turning a guy down by saying no thanks i am busy ( if he asks you out on a date ), to be nice girls say that . but dont you think that to be nice about it is to tell the truth, i do. please respond everything in my post.


If a guy asked me out and I didn't find him attractive I would appreciate it just a little but not alot. And no I don't think It'll be great to be honest, because like this guy said, would you really love to hear why they turned you down?

[Lightningchico]

i do know no matter what they say of why they turned me down ( if they did ), but i mean just trying to cover it up y saying oh i cant i am busy, i would rather them just say " No thanks i dont like you like that ", i dont mean for them to say " hell no your ugly, fat " or whatever the truth is, the girls should just say no i am not attracted to u

[Jounouchi]

Sometimes when you want honesty from a girl, they go overboard. lol

[billabonggurl71]

to me, if their really nice, i cant say no, i jus cant, i really apreciate them asking me, but i jus cant say no, unless in going out with sum1 already, or there mean

[Mirri_Night]

Girls like to be polite to keep their image up. (If they aren't polite then they don't have a decent image.) I'd appreciate the fact that he got the courage to come up and ask me out... I commend anyone with that courage... I think it's good to tell him the truth that "you just don't see him that way" and definitely not the "hell no, you're ugly" way... that's just bloody mean. So, uh, I'd appreciate it, but if I'm not attracted to him in any way then I'd politely say no. If they've got an AWESOME peronsality but are okay-looking, I'd say yes... Awesome personality and butt-ugly? I dunno. I mean, you've got the personality, but you need both physical attraction and mental attraction to make a relationship truly work...

[supremedm2003]

If a guy that I didn't like asked me out, I would politely turn him down.
Unless he was a jerk.
Then I'd tell him off.

[jessiero]

well i suppose it wouldnt bother me to much, unless it was just some strange guy i'd never even met before that might be a little creepy, but the worst i would do is look at him funny and then tell him he needs to get to know me first!

[MissCasablancas]

being asked out by anyone is flattering, if i wanted to say no i would try and say it in a nice way. if they had nothing going for them i wouldnt wanna tell them that, i wouldnt wanna upset them.

[alarming]

Really? Would you really have a girl be totally honest and say "you're ugly, boring, short, fat, not athletic, not popular" or whatever her REAL reason was?
Personally, I'd rather have her tell me she's busy and take the hint.
I, perosnally wouldn't mind a guy that i didn't like asking me out but, if he didn't leave me alone about it after i said no, i'm busy, etc.. i would hate that. if i didi like him i would go out him (obviously).

Good Luck

[mikeduff919]

Really? Would you really have a girl be totally honest and say "you're ugly, boring, short, fat, not athletic, not popular" or whatever her REAL reason was?
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l will just respond "cool"

she can think whatever she want. if it's true, it doesn't matter if she point it out or not.

[mikeduff919]

to me, if their really nice, i cant say no, i jus cant, i really apreciate them asking me, but i jus cant say no, unless in going out with sum1 already, or there mean

l really wouldn't appreciate a pity date.

[razblo]

l really wouldn't appreciate a pity date.
IMO a pity date would be HELL!