Dilemma

[ihaterice]

Here's the problem. I am going to be a junior in HS in about 2 weeks. I haven't had a girlfriend since 7-8th grade. I had a little stint with a girl, she was obsessed over me, so I decided to date her and see if things got anywhere. Well the didn't, so i moved on. Now it is 3 years later and I am looking for someone. I think I found her but i'm not sure. I have known her pretty much since as soon as I went to school. I never really talked to her until last year. I saw her about once a week and fell for her. I still have feelings for her, and don't really talk to her off the 'net, seeing as she goes to a different school, as of the start of HS and she is in, but I'm not back in school yet. She does seem like she enjoys talking to me. My question is this...do you think it is worth asking her on a date, or would it fizzle and leave me yet again gf'less? Or should I try to get to know her a little better? Often she comes into the place I work and we'll talk for a few moments, but I've talked to her for hours online before. Do you think I should further pursue this? I've been rejected already twice this summer, so I'm not feeling to up about it.

[Peacemaker]

Try it, and don't expect anything(this way you can't get hurt by it, or at least not as much) It might work, it might not.... but don't doubt yourself when you're doing it. It's the #1 route to a major ^%^(& up. Just do it, it might not work.... but if its a good friendship it shouldn't be hurt too much with that between you. Lastly, if you disagree.... follow your instincts

[problems]

Well, if you talk online for hours then apparently she at least likes you as a friend. In this regard, it's safe to say that you know her pretty well. If not, talk to her online and find out more about HER, instead of just the weather or something like that. Then, once you feel you know her well enough, ask her out. You won't be hurting a good friendship by asking, and you two could possibly even make a better couple. Also, it's better than being single, even if it's for a week. Then you two could just go back to being friends. Either way, it's worth a shot.

[EZ4Giver89]

i think u should try it . . . n see wut goes down . . . i am sure she'll say yes . . . :horse: