What now?

[footballkid32]

http://forums.govteen.com/showthread.php?t=189954

A girl and I had an argument that's described in that topic (especially the last post i made). Shes talking to me now like nothing happened, and im really wondering what i should do.

This whole thing is gonna be bothering me as long as we're as close as we are. So maybe i need to loosen the friendship, so she can do what she wants, and i can not worry about it? Or is it imperative thta i keep everything as it is?

["The Dude"]

Alright i'm not really good at advice giving so i'll try to equate this to football. I'm being serious.

Alright so it's been a tough game, say you're 24-18. You just fumbled the ball, but thanks to a good defense you've managed to get the ball back. You're in the 4th quarter and the 2 Minute Warning has just been announced. Now you're going to need to run an efficient two minute drill here. Now let's say you're starting at the 40-yard line in your own territory. You're going to have make your running game highly efficient as you don't want any turnovers, (Pretty much make slow, yet steady progress with her, you don't want to drive her away). Then as you get closer to around 40-30 yard line, then start incorporating your passing attack into the game. (As you start progressing then try to tell her to quit what she's doing, that it's not right, take a bigger risk as to how brutally true you are). Then as you get closer to the end zone have your guy run the ball for the touchdown. (Once you have her trust and know she'll reason with you, take some action, it's not enough to just talk with her about it) Only use timeouts when totally necessary, remember you only have three. (uuhhhh idk about that symbolism D: )

Remember, you want to use up as much time as possible and not allow the other team's offense enough time to make any type of score, so you want to be very efficient. It's all or nothing kid. Just remember, at the end of the night, leave the game at the football field ( I know you're trying to be a hero by helping her with problems, but hey, sometimes you gotta know how much you can do, if you find you can't help her, then hey kid you gotta move on, you have no obligations and it's not worth your time if you keep losing)