Views on late bloomers having sex

[Uzumaki]

Me and my girl friend are talking about having sex. My prob is I'm 15 and can't cum. Do you think thats an issue? Or should i go for it?

[Mr_me]

well if you cannot cum, pregnancy is a much lower risk. Do what you feel is right.

[Dolphus Raymond]

If you are emotionally ready, then you are emotionally ready. You should still wear a condom, though.

[UK-2010]

Me and my girl friend are talking about having sex. My prob is I'm 15 and can't cum. Do you think thats an issue? Or should i go for it?

I think I remember you mentioning about penis size being small-ish. You'd probably have a hard time finding a condom that would fit, particularly if you're lacking in girth.

Although you could always have unprotected sex since you can't ejaculate anyway. But then again, you never know when that first ejaculation will happen and there would still be the risk of STDs.

[Uzumaki]

I think I remember you mentioning about penis size being small-ish. You'd probably have a hard time finding a condom that would fit, particularly if you're lacking in girth.

Although you could always have unprotected sex since you can't ejaculate anyway. But then again, you never know when that first ejaculation will happen and there would still be the risk of STDs.

Cure my body:X I know shes a vergin, shes only had one other "boy friend". A lot of this stems from my friend saying I'm not ready just because I can't ejaculate. I KNOW i'm emtionaly ready.

[lmaoplane]

You're not emotionally or physically ready.

[UK-2010]

Does she actually know that you've hardly started puberty then?

[Uzumaki]

You're not emotionally or physically ready.

SCRU YOU!! How would you know if I'm ready or not? I've heald off the question for over a year! I posted this to help clear up my insecurities after a comment my friend made, instead, I get someone like you dictating to me! I'm feeling very insecure at the moment, and your not helping!

[Uzumaki]

Does she actually know that you've hardly started puberty then?

I'll let her know. Actually, shes a bit of a late bloomer herself, so it'll all work out in the end, By the way, when I say we're talking about it, I mean like 2 or 3 months down the road.

[amigo32]

it sounds like you're letting your friends pressure you into having sex.

You said:

"A lot of this stems from my friend saying I'm not ready just because I can't ejaculate."

So, you want to have sex to prove him wrong.

Anyway, you have plenty of time. Why have sex now? I don't think it's very common for guys to have sex before they can cum...why waste your first time? If you're not physically ready, I doubt it's going to be as good of an experience.

Have you tried oral? That might keep you busy for a while.

[UK-2010]

I wouldn't have had sex at 15, particulularly since I'd only really been in Puberty since 14 and couldn't ejaculate anything until 16 ...

But then again, I wouldn't have considered myself emotionally ready to be doing that anyway.

[Uzumaki]

it sounds like you're letting your friends pressure you into having sex.

You said:

"A lot of this stems from my friend saying I'm not ready just because I can't ejaculate."

So, you want to have sex to prove him wrong.

Anyway, you have plenty of time. Why have sex now? I don't think it's very common for guys to have sex before they can cum...why waste your first time? If you're not physically ready, I doubt it's going to be as good of an experience.

Have you tried oral? That might keep you busy for a while.

No, no. My inscurity stems from my friend judging me. I KNOW i'm ready for sex. Also, I don't let people pressure me into ANYTHING. I posted this thread to maybe clear some of it up. I'm also thinking of just having oral for a little wile first. EDIT: Me and my girl friend have be talking about taking it to the next level before my friends comment.

[P[a]radiseFound]

I'll let her know.

I think you need to do that first.
My guess is you haven't explored other areas if she isn't aware you're a late bloomer? If that's the case, you're getting way ahead of yourself here. Exploring each others bodies manually and orally can keep you two satisfied for quite some time.

[Uzumaki]

radiseFound']I think you need to do that first.
My guess is you haven't explored other areas if she isn't aware you're a late bloomer? If that's the case, you're getting way ahead of yourself here. Exploring each others bodies manually and orally can keep you two satisfied for quite some time.

I ment sex as in oral.

[UK-2010]

No, no. My inscurity stems from my friend judging me. I KNOW i'm ready for sex. Also, I don't let people pressure me into ANYTHING. I posted this thread to maybe clear some of it up. I'm also thinking of just having oral for a little wile first.

A lot of people seem to start with just making out and all the touchy-feely stuff before ever having Sex ...

Although you seem to be 16 soon anyway, so you'd be of legal age to have sex if you really want to.

[Tim]

Well if you feel ready then go for it. No need to ask us.

[P[a]radiseFound]

I ment sex as in oral.

You should have said that, there's a difference between intercourse sex and oral sex.

Everyone here is assuming you are planning on having intercourse.

[Uzumaki]

radiseFound']You should have said that, there's a difference between intercourse sex and oral sex.

Everyone here is assuming you are planning on having intercourse.

Sry, i'm an idoit sometimes...

[kt8]

If you want to have oral sex with your girlfriend, then go for it. If you masturbate, and enjoy the sensations it brings, then oral should be fine, but make her aware that you haven't started ejaculating yet, so that she's not going at it, expecting you to 'finish'.

[UK-2010]

but make her aware that you haven't started ejaculating yet, so that she's not going at it, expecting you to 'finish'.

I probably wouldn't have mentioned that if I was doing sexual stuff at 15. More amusing to keep her doing it for a while, wondering why there's no ejaculation :biggrinye

[Action Man]

What the hell... prepubescent kids are into sex now? What is this world coming to?

[UK-2010]

What the hell... prepubescent kids are into sex now? What is this world coming to?

He's not actually prepubescent since he said he's got pubes ......

[Action Man]

Pre-sexual maturity, then. You know what I mean.

[Uzumaki]

What the hell... prepubescent kids are into sex now? What is this world coming to?

SCRU YOU!! Stop acting like you're sooooo much better just because I'm not as developed as you! I'll have any kind of sex I want any time I dam well please. Its people like you who make me feel bad abou myself. Watch who you're calling a kid! I'll be 16 next month. My sig says it all, you really are craptastic!

EDIT: 250+ post WOOT WOOT!

[kt8]

SCRU YOU!! Stop acting like you're sooooo much better just because I'm not as developed as you! I'll have any kind of sex I want any time I dam well please. Its people like you who make me feel bad abou myself. Watch who you're calling a kid! I'll be 16 next month. My sig says it all, you really are craptastic!

Don't rise to it......you know yourself how you feel, it doesn't matter what anyone else says. Its whats in your head that counts, and if you feel ready to go that bit further with your girlfriend, then do what feels right.

[Uzumaki]

Don't rise to it......you know yourself how you feel, it doesn't matter what anyone else says. Its whats in your head that counts, and if you feel ready to go that bit further with your girlfriend, then do what feels right.

I felt i needed to stand up for myself. If I don't then people will walk all over me. Also, thats not the 1st time he insulted me.
Anyway, I'll do what my girl friend wants.

[kt8]

I felt i needed to stand up for myself. If I don't then people will walk all over me. Also, thats not the 1st time he insulted me.
Anyway, I'll do what my girl friend wants.

Fair enough,and I do understand why you wanted to stand up for yourself, Rising to it though is just what he wants, just ignore him, as I say, at the end of the day, you should be confident to do whatever makes you and your girlfriend happy and comfortable. Just because you haven't reached full puberty doesn't mean you can't make your own decisions ;)

[oceankayaker14]

i could ejaculate when i was 12

[kt8]

i could ejaculate when i was 12

good for you. Somehow I don't think that helps the O.P does it?:roll:

[zoner]

Wow I could sence 13 who gives. Now dont pay atention to your body it seemes love not lust is driving you to have sex so if its realy love your sharing then she wont care. If your emotionaly ready then GO DO IT! But if your not ready to accept the concinquenses then wait a bit.

[Uzumaki]

i could ejaculate when i was 12

My what a helpful person:roll: Now I feel just that much better about myself!

[Uzumaki]

Fair enough,and I do understand why you wanted to stand up for yourself, Rising to it though is just what he wants, just ignore him, as I say, at the end of the day, you should be confident to do whatever makes you and your girlfriend happy and comfortable. Just because you haven't reached full puberty doesn't mean you can't make your own decisions ;)

Thanks for the advice! Is it just me, or is this turning into a "Lets make Uzuzmaki feel even more insecure then he already is" thread. It seems like when ever theres a thread with the title "late bloomer" in it all the n00bs come and make that person feel bad!

[Joe_Bliss]

Before having sex i think u shuld do 1st, 2nd base, maybe not 3rd cause some girls dont like 3rd, this makes you feel really ready!

and yeh u shuld be rdy. Trust me u wanna lose ur virginity somewhere special.

[andxyz]

i'm sure youll b fine, just tell her. If shez just being a hoor, she'll say no, if she loves you, shell say yes! :P

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Fair enough,and I do understand why you wanted to stand up for yourself, Rising to it though is just what he wants, just ignore him, as I say, at the end of the day, you should be confident to do whatever makes you and your girlfriend happy and comfortable. Just because you haven't reached full puberty doesn't mean you can't make your own decisions ;)
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Thanks for the advice! Is it just me, or is this turning into a "Lets make Uzuzmaki feel even more insecure then he already is" thread. It seems like when ever theres a thread with the title "late bloomer" in it all the n00bs come and make that person feel bad!

[Farvahar]

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[robbo89]

uzamaki im not being funny but are you sure u cant cum! im 16 and only realised i could about 4 months ago, because i simply wasnt masturbating long enough, im sure at 15 most boys can cum, i may be wrong

[Farvahar]

, im sure at 15 most boys can cum, i may be wrong


That's why he's a late bloomer ;)

[Joe_Bliss]

I culd cum when i was 5 years old. ;)

[Farvahar]

I culd cum when i was 5 years old. ;)


Hahaha ahaha ahaha ha...no

[Joe_Bliss]

lol ;D honestley i could cum when i was about 10

[Phoenix]

if u wanna do it then do it. but wear a condom ne way even though u think u cant cum there is a chance u will

[Mr. Smif]

Before having sex i think u shuld do 1st, 2nd base, maybe not 3rd cause some girls dont like 3rd, this makes you feel really ready!

and yeh u shuld be rdy. Trust me u wanna lose ur virginity somewhere special.

I know this is very off topic but wtf IS 1st, 2nd and 3rd base? lmao sorry im not like an idiot though I know what oral, anal, missionary is so dont flame me:hippy:


uzamaki im not being funny but are you sure u cant cum! im 16 and only realised i could about 4 months ago, because i simply wasnt masturbating long enough, im sure at 15 most boys can cum, i may be wrong

Same here I found out I can cum like a few months ago but its only like just a very very small amount,.. like its not even enough to drip, and it doesnt shoot or anything it just oozes out slowly and its SO small you wouldnt notice unless you touch, because it doesnt drip.

[Uzumaki]

uzamaki im not being funny but are you sure u cant cum! im 16 and only realised i could about 4 months ago, because i simply wasnt masturbating long enough, im sure at 15 most boys can cum, i may be wrong

Yes, i'm sure! God, how stupid do you think I am? I've been j/oing long enough to realize. I've only deiscovered gov when I was 15, so don't go passing jugments on someone you don't know!

[Crazeecool]

edit: lol, ok Oral. Yeah, most people say they've had oral at 15-16 and have expieramented pleanty in those areas, weather they're telling the truth or not, I dunno. But yeah, oral is perfectly fine.