things girls expect guys to understand?

[Donald Dulk]

hi, this is for the ladies. I'm sure u know that guys find you difficult to understand. THis is because you expect that we know things, but which of course we, in reality, have no clue about. I know all girls are different, but lets exclude the "slutty" type (no offence). Well i was jw if u cud write some rules on how to behave for the first few dates in regards with kissing, opening doors, paying for things, what not to do, where not to go etc.. Just general tips would be awesome. thanks

[Utopian]

There's no such thing as rules when it comes to dating. And in all honesty, girls don't expect guys to know all that much about girls or dating, especially if they're new to relationships in general.

In general, treat her with respect. Talk to her like she's equal to you. Don't pressure her into anything she's not ready for. Be yourself. That's it.

[TISA*]

There's no such thing as rules when it comes to dating. And in all honesty, girls don't expect guys to know all that much about girls or dating, especially if they're new to relationships in general.

In general, treat her with respect. Talk to her like she's equal to you. Don't pressure her into anything she's not ready for. Be yourself. That's it.

agree. :)

[bkgolfer9]

If you're on a date with a girl you don't know very well, be yourself. If she doesn't like you when you are yourself, then so be it. Personally, I like to become decently good friends with a girl before I would "date" her. I just think it's easier to be comfortable around each other when you're already familiar with the other. To take that to the extreme, my girlfriend was (and still is) my best friend for three years before we even started dating. The better your friendship, the better your relationship will be.