Regreting A Relationship

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I used to date this guy who i thought was decent until i found out that he was a complete liar and loser. He is completely stupid and I think that he is possibly gay! He is overly excited about everything and after everything he writes he always puts an exclamation point. Also I think he has a thing for his mother bc he tells her everything like a little momma's boy. He's so immature and I can't believe that I fell for him and his lies. Now looking back I laugh because he's so stupid and think's that he's hurting me by avoiding me or secretly saying rude things about me. His new girlfriend supposedly has a boyfriend or something i don't know but I guess he loves her all of a sudden. What was I thinking???????? I didn't even want to go out with him at first, I didn't even like him, but I did it anyways just to have a boyfriend. I regret a relationship that I didn't even want to have in the first place.

So, my question is, is regreting a relationship a good thing, or should I accept it as a part of the journey of life? And should I tell him how much he makes me want to throw up?

[dejrfan821]

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I used to date this guy who i thought was decent until i found out that he was a complete liar and loser. He is completely stupid and I think that he is possibly gay!First of all...I'm not a liar and I'm sure as hell not gay.


Also I think he has a thing for his mother bc he tells her everything like a little momma's boy.An open family talks to each other about everything...sorry you never understood my family.


He's so immature and I can't believe that I fell for him and his lies. Now looking back I laugh because he's so stupid and think's that he's hurting me by avoiding me or secretly saying rude things about me.After breaking up I said not to call me every day...so you decided to call 4 or 5 times a day. Also, I may be a little immature but I matured a lot in college.


His new girlfriend supposedly has a boyfriend or something i don't know but I guess he loves her all of a sudden.My girlfriend hadn't had a boyfriend three years prior to going out with me. If you're going to use something on someone try to have all the facts straight.


I didn't even want to go out with him at first, I didn't even like him, but I did it anyways just to have a boyfriend. I regret a relationship that I didn't even want to have in the first place.If I remember correctly you were the one that said you wanted to wait until June then in February you asked me out. And you claim you liked me from the first time we met and you wanted to go out with me then. Lets gets the facts straight here.

Here's the thing that gets me...how can you go from saying you love someone and can't live without them to all of a sudden you hate them and never wanted the relationship that you pushed for. I did love you but you did stuff that would have made me leave that night but I didn't. I'd say I did love you since I put you before my college work and ended up failing out. I went back home to see you in the hospital when I should have been at school studying. I did so much for you and put up with so much bullshit from you and yet I'm the bad guy now? I find that really funny. Have fun regretting the best thing that ever happened to you.

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wow. how arrogant can you be? and to think....i wasn't even talking about you. hmmm.....
i think somebody is a little to full of himself.

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and you failed out because you didn't go to class. i talked to your mother and she even told me that it wasn't my fault it was your own. she said you were too irresponsible and immature to handle college and a relationship.

[dejrfan821]

How do I think it's me you're talking about? Lets see...you know I talk to my mom about almost everything. I have been avoiding you and there was a comment on myspace about saying how I say evil things behind people's backs (which was a joke). And there was a girl I was hanging out with that I wanted to go out with that had a boyfriend. And you never talked to my mom. Maybe your aunt talked to my mom but not you.

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first of all im not talking about you im talking about my most recent relationship with a guy i met at canton. And yes I did talk to your mother, I don't like being considered a liar of little things such as that. Don't flatter yourself and think that I am talking about you. I'm sorry but I'm here on Govteen too, and I have aol im and myspace too, so i guess you're just going to have to live with that. If you don't like it then to bad. Suck it up and be a man.

[SnowBlind]

Well this got interesting >_>

[Utopian]

Kathleen, since this is just turning into a fight between you and Josh I'm going to lock it and you two can continue this privately if you must.

In answer to your question, it's best not to analyze why you regret things in your past. PEople regret things in their life all the time. Rather than sitting around and wondering whether it's a good or bad thing, just store the things that you get away in the back of your mind and try not to repeat those things in the future.