Help getting a hookup

[PooHead4950]

Originally posted by PooHead4950
no you all completely misunderstood what i'm talking about... just.. nevermind.. no more replies

[AndreBSD]

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[Jennifer_Canada]

I've learned from experience. If a guy is just wanting sex and you're not ready, the girl usually won't stick around. I dated a guy for a month who was really into sex, yet I wasn't ready yet. Some girls don't like sex all the time, especially when they're young. Take it slow and get to know a girl. I've finally found Mr. Right, yet we're still taking it slow.

[tessera]

Originally posted by PooHead4950
There's two things I don't get: the first is I don't get any from girls. My girl friends (friends who are girls... not gf's) all tell me that they think I'm the cutest thing in the world. So the second thing I don't get is *why* I'm not getting any.

Getting any what? I hope it is not sex you are referring to.


I just started a new school this year. I didn't move, but I don't really know anyone from my town... mostly because I went to private schools all my life, and just last year I was being homeschooled (which sucked... seriously..). So basically I'm at a new school with new people. But just talking to people and "breaking the ice" and being myself I can do just fine.

Everything decent takes time to perfect. New schools take much adjustment. You need to find your feet in a new environment and then remember that your education is the most important thing in your life - not girls.


Because I don't really have any girls I really hang out with, there's no way for me to really do "anything" with someone. I'm really not good friends with anyone there just yet, and people at my school usually don't just invite strangers to hang out with them. So I'm kinda just stalled here at "just being noticed."

Still on with this "anything" I see. Exercise some patience. Get to know people as friends - worthwhile friends.

Now because I don't really have any girl friends from my old schools, there's no one to really do anything with. And I haven't done anything with anyone since early in the summer, and even that was just making out.... it's killing me. I would push a little harder for it, but since this is a new school with a whole lot of people who I haven't really made an impression on yet, I don't want to get known as a man-whore or some perv. So what do you think I should do to at least get a bj from someone? (Don't get me wrong, I'm the last person to use someone just for a hookup.) I flirt with girls and make jokes and make them laugh all the time. But they never really flirt back.... except for the ones who are either taken, not really attractive, or hardcore religious type who won't do anything.[/quote]

I am finding it hard not to be mean here. "Do anything with - done anything - a bj - do anything." See my note below. maybe the hardcore religious types could see what you were after.


I know that "going after" someone and wanting to go out with them, and eventually asking them out, would almost guarantee at least a *little* action, but see I've only had one gf my whole life, and she was just like.... blah. So I really don't have any experience with asking people out. But a "f*ck buddy" would be really nice. Help?

"guarantee a little action - fu-k buddy."

Well I must say I am very disappointed in this posting. I hope I am not judging you wrongly but it seems to me you see girls as some sexual objects to satisfy you. Some ones to gain sexual gratification from. I believe there is enough evidence in your posting to justify what I saying.

Girls are lovely people and should be wonderfully valued for their companship and intellect and personality. I believe you don't see that; you only want them for "a little action", a "f-ck buddy!!" That disappoints me a lot and I hope you don't see me as mean but if that is what you think of girls honestly, I hope you don't find a girl until you grow up and gain some maturity so you can truly value a girl for the beautiful person she is.

Ron

[tessera]

Can some tech person tell me why my last post is all strange and in bold and big. I did absolutely nothing with any of the commands.

I don't like the the look of what has happened.

[PooHead4950]

Originally posted by AndreBSD
There lies your entire problem, ofcourse no chicks want you if all you want to do is fuck.

If I went up to some girl, knowing that all I wanted was sex then there would be something wrong. Id find it alot more apealing to go on a cruise somewhere and cudle up together, than to be like you and just have sex... you may want to sometimes stop and think from the girls point of view.

nuh uh uh... see i just mean like someone to mess around with... i don't want to have sex.. yet..

[PooHead4950]

Originally posted by tessera

Well I must say I am very disappointed in this posting. I hope I am not judging you wrongly but it seems to me you see girls as some sexual objects to satisfy you. Some ones to gain sexual gratification from. I believe there is enough evidence in your posting to justify what I saying.

Girls are lovely people and should be wonderfully valued for their companship and intellect and personality. I believe you don't see that; you only want them for "a little action", a "f-ck buddy!!" That disappoints me a lot and I hope you don't see me as mean but if that is what you think of girls honestly, I hope you don't find a girl until you grow up and gain some maturity so you can truly value a girl for the beautiful person she is.


no no no don't take that the wrong way.. i don't see girls as objects, i hate people who do... all i meant is everyone needs a hookup or a bj or something every once in a while, i dont want to just use a girl *just* for a hookup... i mean.. see this is hard to put into words... like a friend who you hook up with.. you're friends, but like "friends with benefits" ... you know what i mean?

[AGuyWithHeart]

Wanting something just a little less than sex is an EXTREMELY poor way to justify what you're looking for. I myself am also extremely disappointed. You know there's a reason you aren't "getting any"...

Ladies, stay away from this one!

[AndreBSD]

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[PooHead4950]

no you all completely misunderstood what i'm talking about... just.. nevermind.. no more replies